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Her destination was an all-inclusive resort in Negril, on the western tip of Jamaica, one of the biggest destinations for female sex tourism. – there he was,” she tells me over the phone from her home town of Sheffield. His locks were down his back and his legs were like a footballer’s.
He showered me with compliments about my legs, my hair, how I smelled, everything.He even said he liked my accent.” Barbara’s previous marriage had been abusive and damaging, leaving her feeling “worthless and like no man would ever look at me again.Chris made me feel gorgeous and special straight away.” Yet this was the beginning of not a holiday romance but a commercial exchange between a relatively rich westerner and an impoverished “beach boy”.It isprostitution but often only the seller, and not the buyer, is aware of that.Barbara only realised Chris viewed her as a sex tourist when one day he told her, “No money, no sex,” after she refused to give him cash for a drug deal.They are called “bumsters” in Gambia, “Rastitutes” or “beach boys” in the Caribbean and “sanky pankies” in the Dominican Republic.
These are the men providing sex in return for money or goods to women who want a holiday “romance”.
The men are invariably from impoverished families, have little or no education and are sometimes illiterate.
Over the past decade, I have been researching the increase in female sex tourism in underdeveloped and poorer countries.
Most of the women involved are looking for attention and excitement but end up, often without realising it, being one half of a prostitution deal.
Although a small number of African-American women travel to the Caribbean for sex with beach boys, most of the women are white, middle-aged or older and come from Europe and North America.
They travel alone or with female friends and often have a history of unhappy relationships with men at home. In her late fifties and divorced, she travelled to Jamaica for her first holiday alone last winter.